DO YOU MAKE THE SAME MISTAKES AGAIN AND AGAIN ?

 If you make the same mistakes again and again , it means :

● There is something in it you like very much .

● You realize it is not good for you , which is why you call it a mistake.

● Even through you call it a mistake , you haven't focussed on the lesson you learned from it.

● You are weak because of which the lesson remains unapplied.

● You are weak because of the thing you like very much.

Therefore ,  You need to acknowledge three things :

1. What is it that you like very much .

2. How bad is it hearting you ?

3. How will your life change if you applied the lessons you learned ?

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Let's take two scenarios : Dating and Career.

At first , Dating .

Let's say , you keep getting into the same relationship even after getting hurt.

◆ As I said it before there is something in it you like very much -- Sex , Comfort, The feeling of belongingness , The feeling of Familiarity, The illusion of normality , A fixation of wanting things how they used to be , Something . This is your drug also addiction or your weakness.

◆ How bad is it hurting you ? Really think about What you have become. Are you unhappy as a person ? Are you making compromises that the logical side of your brain disagrees with ? Are you changing , adapting and cutting off emotional parts of you that used to make you who you are ? How have you changes as a person because of this relationship, which on many occasions you have called a mistake .

◆ How will your life change if you STOPPED? If you ended this , what will be the benefits that will come to your life ?

Let's take the example of Career now . You are messing up again and again , as a result , you lose opportunities . What is the pattern ?

🤔  You are a pioneer of some habits that are taking all of your time like  Facebook , Youtube , Instagram , Gaming , Tiktok or it might be any f*cking social media or anything.

🤔 The fact that you are losing opportunities is the hurt these habits are causing .

🤔 If you stopped these habits , you will be Successful.

Again , it goes back to being a prisoner of a few habits you love which are poisonous to your growth . Every time you feel hurt or disappointed , your brain ought to conduct an investigation instead of just sleeping it off . There is a reason why you have a logical , reasoning part of your brain , use it.  After an investigation , certain things come to the fore. Is the pleasure from what you like worth keep getting hurt again and again ?

In other case, Let's say you are emotionally addicted to your partner, but from time to time , they keep hearting you . How many areas in your life does that hurt reach and impact ? Is it making your Sadder  ,Lonelier , asocial , unmotivated, unproductive ....... how many areas ?Is the pleasure of being with them worth all of these negative results ? This simple reasoning will give you clarity and strength to take logical action. What you have been doing so far is take emotional actions , because emotions incline more toward feeling better , happy and receiving pleasure , which means , doing it again . And there you go .

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